Whether it is made of silver or gold, large or small, made to be worn on a chain around the neck or as part of a charm bracelet, a heart locket is a gift that will be appreciated when it is first given and loved for a lifetime. Lockets are among the most personal gift that can be given, particularly because they provide the opportunity to place something of value inside as well as having something engraved on the back. Heart lockets and lockets in general have been popular gifts for generations, and many people make it a family tradition to give one to each young woman in their family as they arrive at a certain age.
When I was a young girl, I remember playing with my mother’s heart locket endlessly. I loved the way that she would pull it out to wear on dressy occasions, and I loved the fact that she always pointed out to my father that she was wearing it. He had given it to her as a gift on the occasion of the one year anniversary of their first date. Even though we were both just teenagers, they had realized early on that theirs was a very special relationship, and the heart locket served as a sort of promise to my mother that my father would be there for her, that theirs was a relationship that would last forever. He placed a photo of each of them inside the locket, and had the words “You have my heart” engraved onto its back. Today, with my dad gone, I still see my mom wearing that necklace on special occasions, and it always makes me feel good to see it. It makes me feel like even though he is no longer with us, my dad’s heart is there with us in the room.
